It's almost like you are missing an arm when you don't have your children. However, this is not the end; this is the beginning of a new stage of your life. Here are some tips for dealing with empty nest syndrome and enjoying your new freedom.
When the kids leave, you might not need all the room you once had. The big house can even feel empty and a little haunted. You may choose to sell your home.
Though the kids are now out of the house, that does not mean that they are going to be out of your life. In fact, you may start to talk more than ever before.
It's okay to admit that this transition is difficult for you and that you could use some additional help. You do not need to be in pain all by yourself.
Now that it is just you and your partner at home, this is a perfect time to reignite the flame. Do more things together and create a new bond without the children.
Update Your Home
When the kids leave, you might not need all the room you once had. The big house can even feel empty and a little haunted. You may choose to sell your home.
This lets you downsize into something more reasonably sized or more affordable. Selling also gives you the freedom to look at other areas where you might enjoy living.
Alternatively, you may decide to update the home to make it more comfortable for your new lifestyle. Get new furniture and decorations, and even consider making some renovations, such as adding a porch or a hot tub.
Alternatively, you may decide to update the home to make it more comfortable for your new lifestyle. Get new furniture and decorations, and even consider making some renovations, such as adding a porch or a hot tub.
Maintain Communication
Though the kids are now out of the house, that does not mean that they are going to be out of your life. In fact, you may start to talk more than ever before.
Make it a point to establish a time to communicate and visit with all of your children. You can also start traditions when everybody needs to make it home, especially around the holidays.
Get Help
It's okay to admit that this transition is difficult for you and that you could use some additional help. You do not need to be in pain all by yourself.
In fact, many people struggle in a similar way. Look for support groups of other empty nesters or a therapist who has experience in this area if you think a professional will be helpful. You can find other help, though, too.
Many people meditate, get creative, or join a book club. There are numerous surprising places to find help and support.
Focus on Your Relationship
Now that it is just you and your partner at home, this is a perfect time to reignite the flame. Do more things together and create a new bond without the children.
Of course, you still have the memories as a family to help keep you together. Don't be afraid to spice it up a bit and physically reconnect as well.
Becoming an empty nester is a beautiful stage in life, and you should embrace it. At the same time, the change can be difficult for just about anybody. These tips should help you focus on yourself and this new stage.
Becoming an empty nester is a beautiful stage in life, and you should embrace it. At the same time, the change can be difficult for just about anybody. These tips should help you focus on yourself and this new stage.
